Failures and breakthroughs – exposed, reflected, considered

I am sorry

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It has been some time since I last wrote about personal failures. I stumbed accidentially on “I am sorry” poem-list of utterances by men who fail to be noticed, appreciated and loved by women. Men, as it usually is when serious feelings are invovled, are quite perseverant and tolerant, but even then they might become disillusioned. Many women come to an eventual realization of what they really were looking for or cared about. However, it is too late…Below find that poem-list of common I am sorry-s (my own formatting)

I’m sorry
that I bought you roses
to tell you that i like you

I’m sorry
That I was raised with respect
not to sleep with you when you were drunk

I’m sorry
That my body’s not ripped enough
to “satisfy” your wants

I’m sorry
that I open your car door,
and pull out your chair like I was raised

I’m sorry
That I’m not cute enough
to be “your guy”

I’m sorry
That I am actually nice;
not a jerk

I’m sorry
I don’t have a huge bank account
to buy you expensive things

I’m sorry
I like to spend quality nights at home
cuddling with you, instead of at a club

I’m sorry
I would rather make love to you then just screw you
like some random guy.

I’m sorry
That I am always the one you need to talk to,
but never good enough to date

I’m sorry
That I always held your hair back when you threw up,and didn’t get mad at you for puking in my car, but when we went out you went home with another guy

I’m sorry
That I am there to pick you up at 4am when your new man hit you and dropped you off in the middle of nowhere, but not good enough to listen to me when I need a friend

I’m sorry
If I start not being there because it hurts being used as a door mat, only to be thrown to the side when the new jerk comes around

I’m sorry
If I don’t answer my phone anymore when you call, to listen to you cry for hours, instead of getting a couple hours of sleep before work

I’m sorry
that you can’t realize.. I’ve been the one all along.

I’m sorry
If you read this and know somebody like this but don’t care

But most of all

I’m sorry
For not being sorry anymore

I’m sorry
That you can’t accept me for who I am

I’m sorry
I can never do anything right, and nothing that I do is good enough to make it in your world.

I’m sorry
I caught your boyfriend with another girl and told you about it, I thought that was what friends were for…

I’m sorry
That I told you I loved you and actually meant it.

I’m sorry
That I talked to you for nine hours on Thanksgiving when your boyfriend was threatening you instead of spending time with my family.

I’m Sorry
That I cared

I’m sorry
that I listen to you at night talking about how you wish you could have done something different.

The author concludes:

Ladies always complain and gripe to their friends that there is never any good guys out there, and they always end up with assholes who mistreat them. Well ladies next time you’re complaining, maybe look up to see who you’re complaining to, maybe that special someone is right there hanging on your every word as usual, screaming in his head “Why won’t you give me a chance?”
Because the person you are usually searching for is right by you.


Written by Hayk

January 23, 2009 at 11:08 am

3 Responses

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  1. this made me cry so hard my heart fel 4 thiz guy. im using this poem for a project and i have to present this to the class and its gonna make me cry all over again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GREATEST POEM EVER!!!!!!!!!


    February 25, 2009 at 9:21 pm

  2. my friend taylor sent this to me and i love it. u sound like the most amazing guy this girl didnt deserve u when i read this i cried ur an amazing poet who ever u r. u made my day. best pom ive ever raed.


    February 25, 2009 at 9:28 pm

  3. Taylor, Selena!

    I am really glad you liked the poem. However, the credit must go to the original poster – the original post is somehow not available, currently – whose creation I merely reposted here!



    February 27, 2009 at 1:09 pm

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